As stated above, I also have yet to have seen an actual case in which phantom limbs will effect anything tangible.
There have been plenty of cases in which others will compensate for one's phantom limbs as well as they might notice if one touches/brushes another person - intentionally or by accident.
Granted, not everyone
will say "Hey, can you get yerr wings outta my face?"
Even those who are sensitive may not recognize or acknowledge the sensations that they're feeling your limbs.
[[Sensitive..Sensations..Feeling.. Redundant sentence of redundancy?]]
I believe this is because humans, or 'kin are able to notice the changes in energy, even if it's not necessarily on this plane. They feel it.
Unless they're completely numb.
Love and stuff.