Re: You know, it is truly weird...
Well, I used to have a similar feeling, back when I was we. I'm not sure this applies to you, or anyone else for that matter, but over a few year I came to realize in my case the 'problem' arised from a rejection of self. In other words, I saw the human I portraying myself as, as weak and removed myself to the point of causing a separation (all be it no literally, but damn near close) into eventually four people. Once these section recognized that we were one, I had less conflicts and a LOT of soul searching. Like I said I'm not sure this could apply to you, but in the unlikely case that it could I thought it might help.
"If we knew what we were doing, it wouldn't be called Research." -A. Einstein