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Light & Dark glamour
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Light & Dark glamour
So there have been some very helpful articles on here about glamour. Now, given my own experiences, I find myself wondering whether I'm using both 'light' and 'dark' glamour unconsciously. In the former case, my partner reports that he feels an overwhelming need to look after me whenever I'm around which following on from a conversation we had earlier today makes me wonder if this is accidental glamour as I don't think I put out that kind of vibe, i'm fairly independent etc so wondered if it could be my energy. On the 'dark' glamour front, I know that in certain situations I am very much putting out a sort of sensual seductive edge and people find that enticing. My thought would be, owing to the often more polarised nature of Fae, that perhaps when fae essence inhabits a human body it gives one access to both types owing to the fact that humans have a more developed and less grey light/dark side than Fae, if that makes sense? <!-- sSmile --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- sSmile --> Would those both be instances of glamour and if so how do I learn to work with that? Thanks. <!-- sSmile --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- sSmile -->
2015-05-30 14:19
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M. Lafae Wrote:In the former case, my partner reports that he feels an overwhelming need to look after me whenever I'm around which following on from a conversation we had earlier today makes me wonder if this is accidental glamour as I don't think I put out that kind of vibe, i'm fairly independent etc so wondered if it could be my energy.

Could this simply be his response to you in general and not you yourself? In other words, he is a protective person and thus wants to look out for you (which is a natural mammalian instinct).

M.Lafae Wrote:Would those both be instances of glamour and if so how do I learn to work with that? Thanks. <!-- sSmile --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- sSmile -->

If you feel like you can work with light, dark, or both sorts of energies, my suggestion would be to simply start small and try practicing with it in your spare time. Most things simply require practice. <!-- sWink --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_wink.gif" alt=";)" title="Wink" /><!-- sWink -->

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2015-06-01 19:50
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Thanks, I will have a play around/practice and see what I come up with. <!-- sSmile --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- sSmile --> As to my partner, you're quite right of course and he had pointed that out to me following my posting this. <!-- sBig Grin --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_biggrin.gif" alt=":D" title="Very Happy" /><!-- sBig Grin --> <!-- sSmile --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- sSmile -->
2015-06-02 8:30
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