If you could choose what you are...
What would you be? Or at least, if you 1) got to choose what type of kin you are instead of it just being what it is and 2) could be certain that you were indeed what you wished whether in a past life or as part of your heritage or whatever, what kind of kin would you wish to be? Or would you rather try being completely human if it was open to you?
I think I'd have it a lot easier from people around me if I weren't kin of any kind, or a vampyre, or multiple. But I know that with my personality, I'd be really lonely if I weren't multiple. So keeping that, and focusing on just me, if I were still kin, I'd stay how I am or want to be elven, I think. The stereotypical elf traits fit me pretty well, especial night elves, so yeah, I'd choose normal human, stay the same or elf in that order.