I haven't settled on a specific type of deer, and have had different shifts like moose, red deer, reindeer, and white tail and such, and so I guess the term cladotherian really does apply at the moment. It's possible that I haven't found my final answer and am "undecided", but I've tried to avoid inducing shifts so I think the ones I've had are all real ones. I don't feel limited to any one category and just really simply identify as the family of deer, itself.
I am pretty firm about the fact that I am human inside and out. There are times I even feel a bit split from my kin type. I think the word "therian" bothers me because it overlooks my identity as human. I haven't tried too hard to seek out a term, but I'd like to make sure that where terms are going to be used, it's not forgotten that I'm both, and also identify as both (beyond the obvious).
Thanks for the welcomes.