Angelic Charisma and Attractiveness ...

Currently I am reflecting on this which I have outlined as "Charisma and Attractiveness" of angels. I have an actual reason doing this. Since my awakening (and well before that time) I realized my totally lack of interest on human womens and mens at all. I am talking of sexual orientation and such things. One thing I perceived over the years: that I have a very strong effect on humans of the other gender, women. Usually I consider myself not that attractive and all that (I am not a couch-potato and keep my body in shape) - and there are many around with more physical beauty then me. But one thing attracts women like flies to the light: my charisma and aura. I know that a normal human man would "sacrifice his left egg" for this kind of attractiveness, which is totally nonphysical. The problem is that I do not find anything sexual attractive on them (no, neither I am gay. I am simply desinterested in both kind of sexual interaction at all) - even when they are quite pretty and beautiful.

I connect this effect with my nature, being an angel. Here are other angels around and so I am very curious about this. What are your experiences with this? I did some recherche and found that this kind of attractiveness even was mentioned in the bible (when Lot hosted two angels in his manor he had to hide them away in order to prevent the flock outside to have those human desires mentioned above being put into action, i.e., preventing the people outside to have sex with them ...) - and some other texts of that time, dealing with angels. However, I do only want to know about your experiences with that and how you deal with it.

And when you cannot share anything like that, although you are an angel: why it is so? Any ideas? I am sure that there are angels around there, that do not have similar effects on their surroundings. Maybe some wardings and bindings are missing or so. However in past times those bindings mentioned in the article on incarnated angels obviously were not standard equipment. Then my question arises: why are those bindings standard today?

One Divine Being
Greets the Other Divine Beings,

Valamezar

If it's any consolation Val, I'm not attracted to you. <!-- s --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_wink.gif" alt=";)" title="Wink" /><!-- s -->

So, you're saying that angels have something along the lines of Glamour? Nah, we're just naturally pretty. (Who was it that said that angels are stuck up?) <!-- s:lol: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_lol.gif" alt=":lol:" title="Laughing" /><!-- s:lol: -->

I think the effect is two-fold. One is that it's easy to be confident when you believe that God's got your back. That confidence translates into body language, lack of nervousness, and other subtle cues that are often seen as being attractive. Humans are pack animals, and it's to a person's benefit to hang out with and be friendly with an alpha.

The second effect is energetic. Angels are more likely to be made up of pure energy types. That could add to energetic attractiveness, just as a crystal in a pure color is thought to be prettier than an rock with varied textures and colors mottled within. Of course, it's also possible that someone will absolutely hate that color instead.

But growing up as 'other' anything can be difficult, leading to a loss of self-confidence. Or some kin may feel an natural instinct to remain hidden, which also diminishes their glow. I don't feel like my looks have changed much over the years, but from what I've observed, my attractiveness has increased. It seems directly associated to my level of self-confidence.

I can't say I've noticed this. I find men perfectly attractive and blame my large chest for them falling over themselves on occasion...not my otherkinness. Though, I must say that the last two guys I dated I think I ruined for other women. One cheated on a subsequent girlfriend with me until breaking off contact altogether...he couldn't be in a room with me without jumping me. The other is just in love with me and doesn't seem to be getting over it. Whether being an angel has anything to do with it, I have no idea. There's really no way to find out.

I'd also like to add, as a non-angel, that I haven't found angels to be any more charismatic or attractive than your "run of the mill" non-angel per averages..
If anything I tend to think angels lack certain types of charisma at least..

but then.. I'm not attracted to anyone based on their physical appearance, so that aspect of attractiveness is ofcourse out of the equation for me, and that "might" be a factor.

Bah, vamps beats you all in charisma and beauty! They can even sparkle!

*shot*

On a more serious note, couldn't this apply to spirit beings in general? Demons can be just as charming for example, and it's really up to the receiver's preference in the first place (remember Austin Powers? Yea baby!). You mentioned this as being a "nonphysical" trait, which is why I said that, and I would imagine it be strong with spirits who have been around for a while and knows how to play the game as well.

Honestly though, I think it's just the person. As for you, it's probably the fact that no one can get you that makes you so alluring. That's why gay guys are so hot....we ladies can't win them T_T

Interesting. I think I am more charismatic than average and I do suspect that may be influenced my kintype, but I am not an angel.

Another non-angel (as far as I know and remember), but it seems that kin just have something about them. Maybe not the same "something" for each kintype, or even for individuals within kintypes, but we have it.

vampyre_smiles Wrote:Another non-angel (as far as I know and remember), but it seems that kin just have something about them. Maybe not the same "something" for each kintype, or even for individuals within kintypes, but we have it.

Like my amazing ability to disappear from people's attention? It actually used to be a game of mine. I just left and waited until the people I was hanging out with realized I was gone. Needless to say, because I didn't think of it as a talent at the time, it alternatively depressed or pissed me off because of the results. Now I just sneak up on people.

I for one don't think otherkin tend to have that "something" - but people do often point to others similar to themselves and give two thumbs up. When an otherkin says "otherkin tend to be charismatic" or whatever, I don't see that as meaning anything other than a) they like themselves or b) they want to like themselves.

Regarding angels specifically - I don't know any in person, but online I haven't found angels to be any more attractive, charismatic, or alluring than anyone else.

While specific individuals can and do have very intense qualities of attractiveness, I am a little at a loss as to why angels would - is there something in the nature of an angel that subliminally says "I am good breeding stock, your genes will prosper if you mate with me"?

Online I never found anyone attractive or interesting - I am old fashioned there and consider the WWW as an information-exchange-medium only, a left-brain-thing.

Obviously some did not understand my question. I own a totally normal and average human body with not much physical attractiveness, looking into a mirror reveals a 39er with too much grey hair and an uncut beard with longer hair. This charisma I can trace back through my whole life and it works not Online but in real-life: it most often manifest itself in a kind of "okay, he is the boss - he tells us what to do ..." reaction of humans or the totally polarized contrary of loving me: burning hate. I utilize this charisma in my medicinal job during interaction with my patients. However the whole thing increased over the last couple of years. My first strategy, well before I awoke, was that I told around that I would be gay. That led to the same problems with gay men ... - today I do not tell anything about my sexual orientations but obviously this strategy does not work, either.

Note, that before I ask such kind of questions, there were literally many incidents like that.

Recently I have read this article here that describes incarnated angels. Well, there is at least an explanation for the total normal outlook of many angels in-carnae around nowadays. But - and this question I asked, too: This is a newer feature and in older times angels did not have those spells upon them - or better: they had much lesser restrictions binding them. Why that change?

A funny sidestep: Yesternight I phoned with a friend and we reflected on an interesting question: Browsing through those esoteric boards and witch-boards on the Internet we always find only requests of charmings FOR love, but not AGAINST it. Interesting *lol*

@ Motley: "If it's any consolation Val, I'm not attracted to you. <!-- s --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_wink.gif" alt=";)" title="Wink" /><!-- s --> " - Never say never ^^.