Firstly; Fixed your quotes.
Adding bolded text "into" a quote from someone else is a sure-fired to get your replies missed.
Vibes Wrote:Elinox Wrote:Your post raises several questions for me. First, what exactly is your problem? You see "things"? Have you ever tried just telling/asking them to leave you alone and go away?
my problem is raking these boards and trying to find someone who says "hey, yeh i hear ya! lets talk"....the rest of the aggro and superiority is irrelevant to me...as long as i put myself out there and find someone who gets what im saying and communicates..everyone has their own agenda, im just not the one being aggro about it
See, that right there is snark, attitude, and agression.
It's rude.
You mentioned having problems, it's obvious to as for clarification on that.
Vibes Wrote:Elinox Wrote:Vibes Wrote:something i know that doesnt want to be revealed...
Doesn't help us know a whole lot about what problems you're having. <!-- s:? --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_e_confused.gif" alt=":?" title="Confused" /><!-- s:? -->
yeh hi, how are you?....in other words...why would i be open to you when you have basically jumped in here giving me the "you better prove yourself to me"....i would love to think that i could learn off you, but in all honesty all i see is the start of bully boy tactics and i dont rise to that
You mentioned the problem.
If you don't want to talk about something, why mention it?
These are not bully tactics or call for proof, these are "You have a problem? Okay, what is it?"
(also, you were not asked to prove yourself in the other thread, you were told, point blank, NOT to present your personal beliefs as facts that apply to anyone but you unless you do so. The problem being "applying your personal beliefs to others as if they were facts", not "prove it".)
Vibes Wrote:Elinox Wrote:Vibes Wrote:things are getting a bit hairy for my safety...
If you feel you are in physical danger, call the police.
When you say you "disappear" what exactly do you mean? And where do you go?
yeh im sure by you saying call the police you are being funny....im glad you had a laugh at your wit there....when i say i disappear, well, your not exactly creating a feeling of mutual respect - im not here to prove to anyone how valid i am...im here to learn, you dont want to be open to that then kindly leave me alone and go find someone who is maybe a bit more pandering to your big boy style
1. You haven't given any information on your problem to suggest that the police are a bad idea.
2. You realize you're directly insulting an administrator?
Vibes Wrote:the main reason that i am posting here is because im looking for someone with the same power as i have...the difference is, i cant control it...i need to find someone who can - thats all im doing...if you or anyone here finds that offensive or threatening then ignore me..im not here to create fights, just looking for help
Like Elinox said;
Elinox Wrote:Maybe with a bit more info and clarification someone here can offer other suggestions.
Some basic info would be; What gift is it?
Vibes Wrote:if you want to offer suggestions in a genuine manner then i welcome them....if you want to take the piss out of me or bully me then kindly leave me alone - i have enough pain thank you
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